A Silent Night

December 5, 2012

I don’t know about you all, but sometimes Christmastime can be the most stressful time of the year…everyday there’s something to do, somewhere to go, something to buy, on top of all the other day-to-day business of life. You are expected to be happy, and cheerful constantly, even if you feel tired or worn down. There’s a certain amount of pressure to spend a lot of money, and buy the right presents for everyone and if you don’t have the money for that—too bad. Christmas will wipe you broke, and if it doesn’t our culture seems to teach that you didn’t fully enjoy Christmas for all it was worth.

Don’t get me wrong—I love Christmas. But I long for a purer Christmas, a real Christmas. I love snow, and lights, and smiles, and cookies, and laughter…and I love time with family, reading and acting out the Christmas story…and I love caroling parties singing ‘Joy to the World.’ But I think that sometimes Christmas is too much about busy-ness…and not enough about rest. “Peace on earth and mercy mild, God and sinner reconciled” is certainly lost in this time of go, go, go. I’d encourage you all this Christmas to challenge what our culture deems appropriate for the season. To seek out the true Meaning of Christmas and the rest that comes through Him.

In aspects of leadership, these reflections also ring true. Leaders, especially those who have lead for a long time, can often become run down in their work and have difficulty finding the joy in what they once had joy and peace in. Sometimes their purpose becomes hazy, and they lose motivation. Similarly, I think it is important for leaders to not try to lead on their own. In fully relying on Him, they can find rest and reassurance.


We All Need A Little Sugar!

December 5, 2012

I don’t know how many of you guys know this about me, but I am somewhat of a quoteaholic. I love quotes. Preferably motivational/inspirational quotes or comical ones, but I do enjoy the occasional sad quotes too. Dr. Seuss and Mark Twain have provided me with many likable quotes over the ages. But quotes from unknown authors have always been my favorite. Who doesn’t like a good mystery? So with that I will now provide you with a quote that has been on my mind recently.

“When you bake a cake, you need eggs, milk, sugar, butter, and flour. If you are missing the sugar, you can still make the cake, but it’s more like bread. You see what I am saying? It’s still edible, it just won’t taste that good.” – Unknown

 

Other than the fact that I love yummy cake, I chose to share this quote with you all because it reminds me of the great work we did this past weekend at the Capital Area Food Bank. When everyone finally arrived I remember looking around at the five full bins of cans that we had to pack. I knew that we would be able to accomplish it all, but I thought it would take the two hours. I forget who, but I know at one point someone remarked that they thought we would be done early. My response was, “I don’t know, there is still a lot to do.” Well, I learned my lesson; never doubt the amazing abilities of Piedmont 2nd. But also I it made me realize just how crucial every single one of us was. Had just one person not been there, then it would have taken us significantly longer to finish the packing. 8,000 pounds of food in an hour and a half is quite a success. In this if one of us (the ingredients) were missing then we still would have managed to package the food (made a cake) but it would have taken much longer (not been as yummy). In a team every person matters, and if I do say so myself we all make quite the team.

 

 


Do Not Give Up!

December 5, 2012

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Reflections on Growth

December 5, 2012

by Lori Lawson

 

I really want to spend this last blog post of the semester assessing the changes I have seen since “Piedmont 2nd” first came together to form the super power of the combined Leadership and Community Engagement and Sustainability LLC floor. First,  I would like to start with my own progress. While this self-reflection may not pertain to you specifically, I think you will be able to find some similarities in the way you grew as a leader. I know that I came into this experience as a sort established leader. I had organized events, ran service projects, and been elected to many leadership positions – no of which mattered here. The application process was over, I got accepted. Now I stood at the bottom of the totem pole.

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A Critique of Canned Food Drives

December 5, 2012

Submitted by Wendy Wagner.

This year is the Governor’s First Annual Holiday Hoops Classic.  In addition to a basketball tournament, the four participating Virginia Universities (Mason, Univ of Virginia, Old Dominion U. and the Univ of Richmond) will be competing to collect the most donations of non-perishable food.  Capital Area Food Bank, an excellent organization in our region, will be our recipient.

I’ll come clean.  I wrote a provocative title to get you to look. Oldest trick in the book.  You’re thinking, “Seriously Wendy? You’re going to critique a canned food drive?”

Yes.  Yes, I am. Something we strive to do in the Center for Leadership and Community Engagement (CLCE) is challenge students to apply the values of higher education (critical thinking, problem solving, communication, civil discourse, awareness of social problems) to their civic roles.  Just because an effort has good intentions doesn’t mean it is above critical evaluation of impact and effectiveness.

Given the efforts to support the victims of Hurricane Sandy and the spirit of giving that comes with the holidays, the time is ripe for a discussion that gets us all to think a bit more critically about what we’re doing.

This small issue is also a good illustration of a larger one: that community engagement isn’t simple.  We have to have more than just good intentions.  CLCE’s interest is in deepening the discussion as a campus about how we support the community we are a part of.

In this case, at CLCE we would suggest an alternate route:  give money instead of cans.  Do you know what a foodbank can do with money that it can’t do with cans?  Whatever it needs to.  They can buy fresh produce, milk, bread, eggs and other healthy options.  They can provide food that is healthier and a closer fit to their clients’ tastes and cultural preferences.

It’s also important to be aware that food banks often have arrangements with the food industry to have access to surplus food for pennies on the dollar.  In some cases it is a simple buying in bulk issue.  According to one report, they can acquire your two dollar can of food for about ten cents.

So here’s the good news.  CLCE is fully behind the Governor’s Holiday Hoops Classic Food Drive because…  money counts too.  Any funds you donate via THIS WEBSITE  apply toward Mason’s “count” in our contest against the University of Richmond.

Additionally, the CLCE staff is collecting cash for Holiday Hoops in the Johnson Center on December 5th and 12th (Wednesdays).  Four shots in the basket gets you a free t-shirt.

Some may feel this makes the decision of dollars vs cans a “six of one, half-dozen of the other” issue.  We can now give whatever is more convenient to us.  That’s really thinking about it from the giver’s perspective.  We hope the Mason community thinks a little harder and considers the receiver’s point of view when we engage in the community.

Is Mason going to win the Holiday Hoops Classic Food Drive showdown against the U of Richmond?  Of course we are, we’re awesome.  But our donation of money as well as food is going to benefit the Capital Area Food Bank in a much more robust way – and THAT is what really “counts.”

The Holiday Hoops Classic basketball tournament is Dec 22nd (go Patriots!) at the University of Richmond.   Money and cans are being collected from Nov 15 to Dec 15th. 

 


Leadership in Dating: Who Wears the Pants?

December 4, 2012

Dating is a complicated process for any couple. It takes hard work on both ends to maintain a satisfying relationship. Nowadays, I feel as though dating is a much harder process due to certain capacities: timing, age differences, jobs, location, or feelings in general. A complexity of a relationship that is often so prominent in relationships- Who wears the pants? Who takes the lead in a relationship? This question made me wonder… Is this really why opposites attract?

In a relationship, two individuals with the exact same goals, interests, and personality types will probably not stick together for very long. It is obvious why given an example: Two people with extreme domineering personalities, will bicker and butt heads on too many petty things. Both of these individuals are blantantly trying to “wear the pants.” It is about who is leading over who, and that is  not a healthy relationship.

Leadership can be a concept involving several different capacities in a relationship; whether it pertains to a sexual relationship, friendly relationship, or a job-related relationship. The better that we understand leadership, and how to juggle diverse personalities and their impact on relationships. Whether you are zipping up the pants, taking them off, sewing the hole in them, shopping for a new pair, or getting the grass stains out; ask yourself this–> Who wears the pants?


The smartest people in the World

December 4, 2012

The smartest people on earth are those that spend their time as best as possible. People like Terrence Tao. Terrence Tao is a “math prodigy” that got 760 out of 800 on the math SAT… When he was 8 years old. By age 11 he was doing university level math. He then went on to Princeton and got a phd at 21! He’s a brilliant example of what one human being could do if they spend their time as best as they can. He’s won dozens of math awards since then, including the Fields Medal, which is basically the Nobel Peace Prize of Mathematics. Actually, even greater than the Nobel Piece Prize, and harder to obtain.

If you’ve ever been that kind of person that practiced 10 hours a day on a certain skill, I know I’ve been there and done that a few times, you know how rapidly you can improve that skill, and improve at a higher rate than most people you encounter. Each time I practiced a skill for that long, during the present moment of practice, I felt like I was concentrating fully and doing my best at the activity, for 10 hours. But now when I think about those intensive practices, I feet like those practice sessions were instantaneous. That they didn’t really happen. The feeling is just like how quickly elementary, middle, and high school seemed to pass by, instantly. But right when you lived at that moment in time, it seemed as if everything were normal.

In an essay by Paul Graham, he wrote about a lot of interesting ideas and concepts. How the 16 year old Shakespeare or Einstein might seem impressive, but they would not be unlike your other friends you currently have. Because they’re still normal people. The only difference is that, like Terrence Tao, also a normal person, they spent their time as best as they could. Perhaps they didn’t even realize they were spending their time as best as they could, maybe they just made all the right choices based on instinct. It’s best not to over complicate ideas.

In summary, the smartest people on earth are those that spend their time as best as possible.


“Do you have something to say?”

December 2, 2012

So I haven’t really found my niche here at Mason and it is mostly because I never really talk. I stay in my room often and I never let people know how i feel or what I am thinking. My mom sent me this the other day and it really spoke to me.

I think as a good leader, knowing when to say something and knowing when to let other talk is a great quality. If you are constantly talking you cannot hear what others have to say and their advice would be more useful then something you thought of yourself.  I think those that are continuously sharing their thoughts and options are very selfish and one-minded. They think that everything they say is the best and will be useful for everyone. However those that listen to everyone and speak only when needed have a better picture of what could be useful to the group as a whole.

Plato is saying that you do NOT always have to say something. You could learn exponentially more by listening to others. People also look at you differently if you stay silence and only put your input in when needed. I know we have all noticed when that one person that never talks finally speaks up and what they have to say is absolutely genius. As if they have been listening the entire time and when they have something that would be beneficial they announce it.

I strive to be that person, just the same way no one likes a ball hog… no one likes someone that does not know how to be quiet!

-keilah S


“You Can’t Always Get What You Want”

November 29, 2012

One of my favorite song’s is Rusted Roots cover of You Can’t Always Get What You Want (and here are full lyrics). While the verses are resoundingly political, that’s not what I tend to focus on in this song. Instead, I like the chorus which states:

“You can’t always get what you want. But if you try sometimes, you just may find, you get what you need.”

We are such a materialistic and instantaneous society: we want what we want, and we want it now! However, if we considered what are true means of living are, and applied some of the leftover to those less fortunate, perhaps they could get what they need. The world has a funny way of working itself out, I’ve found. Call it karma, a miracle, destiny, or God- things somehow seem to be alright.

So next time you get frustrated or anxious because you can’t immediately get what you want, relax. Have some patience, sit back, and be amazed at the way the day ends.


Insightful Thanksgiving

November 28, 2012

There was so much going on on Thanksgiving day, one of the many was the Redskins vs. Cowboys game. As my family and I watched the Redskins win I noticed a commercial that stuck to me and made me think of our leadership class.  I would show it to you, but I couldn’t find the link for it. :\ Anyways, in the commercial it said ” Good leaders get guys to follow them, great leaders get guys to believe in themselves” , as it showed RG3 running in the background. I thought that quote is completely right; yes it’s awesome when leaders can actually get people to trust them enough to follow them, but what’s even more amazing is when leaders can get their followers to think that what they do makes a difference and they’re all important.