Government has become such a prevalent topic these past few months and only grows even more important each day. Democrats want this, Republicans want that, and Rodrigo wants everyone to take a seat and listen for two seconds. Though I may not be the most politically active person, or the most knowledgeable on the issues, all I know is that people really need to refocus their role in the elections as voters, activists, and as people in general. I went to work this past weekend with a pretty happy mood, all ready to make money and eat free food.
This was all thrown off Saturday night when a couple came in and asked who I was voting for. Though I do identify myself as a Democrat for my own reasons, I felt awkward telling the couple that I supported Obama, but quickly hoped to dismiss that statement by asking what they would like to order. The topic was not dismissed, the couple stated to badger me on why I did so and it got to a point where they were talking loudly about how I was Mexican and that’s probably the only reason I’m voting for Obama. I didn’t know how to tell them that I supported Obama for personal reasons and that I was not Mexican. They continued to talk about how Romney was the best choice for everyone and how he knew best, continuing that conversation aloud for a very long time, and making me the epicenter of that. When they left, I was left with the question of how a leader would approach this situation. I didn’t tell the couple off during their meal, and even though they left no tip, I wished them a good day and went on with my work.
My one complaint that I do tell people when talking about that encounter is that leadership is also seen through the people that represent a leader. The couple could have been Obama supporters, and if I was to say I supported Romney, they might’ve done the same thing. People should not be so dogmatic on their ideals, and even when they disagree, there is a degree of respect that needs to be displayed so that nobody is left feeling insulted and awkward. This sort of confrontation/argument, in my opinion, can be done with more class instead of the whole “you’re right and I’m wrong” ordeal. Richard Van De Lagamaat, a philosopher, dwells into the meaning of truth and also touches on how dogmatism is detrimental for the search of a greater truth. People should not be forceful of their ideals, if you disagree don’t be rude in just saying that. A polite, “I also think that…” or “On the other hand…” Saying “I disagree” and never giving a reason, or even saying why, is not a sign of a good leader or representative. Others have ideas and rights too, respect them. To be honest, I feel like I should just vote for Betty White at this point since she is much more adorable.
October 13th, 2012 at 7:04 pm
This is a great example of how you should always respect the opinions of others. The group in this case is Americans and the goal of the group is to create a brighter future for all, but of coarse like with most things we have different opinions about how, or who, will get us to this goal. Your end statment actually proves your point perfectly, even though I know it is just your humor coming out. When our opinions are regarded as just plain wrong, and we are feeling left out then we tend to disconnect from the goals of the group. Despire disagreements a great leader would want everyone in the group to feel committed to its goals.
October 17th, 2012 at 1:20 pm
First off, this isnt event political talk. For the couple to assume that you are Mexican thus that predetermines your vote for Obama is a racist comment. All this brings to my attention that it is not even about the politics for them. A leader in this situation would not give them the same anger in the leaders response. Tone and message is very important. Just remember an eye for an eye keeps the whole world blind.